“I don’t know that I don’t know”
Unconscious incompetence refers to the inability to recognize one's own incompetence. There are many areas in which we know little, and we are not always aware of our incompetence because we don't engage with all of them. However, unconscious incompetence can be an obstacle to learning and developing skills because it prevents us from recognizing the need to improve. This is why this awareness is the starting point.
“I know that I don’t know”
Once we become aware of our incompetence, we become conscious of our ignorance. This step reveals the gaps we may have in a given area. Conscious incompetence corresponds to recognizing our own limitations and weaknesses. It is a first step toward competence, as it allows us to acknowledge our shortcomings and seek to fill them through learning and practice.
Conscious incompetence leads to two possible paths for progress:
- I am aware of my ignorance, but I am not interested.It is possible to be aware of one's incompetence in a given area without making the necessary effort to improve. This may be due to a lack of motivation, fear of failure, or a lack of available resources to develop the necessary skills.
- I am aware of my incompetence and I want to improveThis step is crucial, as it initiates learning and the development of motivation. To address these gaps, concrete steps must be taken: gathering information, undertaking training, seeking advice from more experienced individuals, or practicing regularly.
Here are some tips to help you achieve your goals:
- Identify the skills to develop : Define the areas where you feel most incompetent and the specific skills you need to acquire to improve.
- Find learning resources This can include online courses, books, videos, or blog articles that will help you acquire the skills you are looking for.
- Practice regularly Practice is essential for progress. Consistency and regularity allow you to benefit from the cumulative effect. It is important to choose times when concentration is at its peak.
- Rubbing shoulders with the best : Seeking feedback from experts or experienced individuals in the field of interest. Meeting them or training with them allows you to identify weaknesses and benefit from the best advice to progress.
- To be persistent Developing skills can take time, and there may be obstacles along the way. Therefore, perseverance is key to reaching the final stage: “I know that I know.”
“I know that I know”
At this stage, we talk about conscious competence. This phase is central to learning; it's the moment when expertise begins to develop. Whether it's for speed reading, a driver's license, or any other skill, conscious competence is necessary to achieve your goals. This is the stage where you consciously apply what you've learned, such as respecting traffic laws while driving or applying speed-reading techniques.
“I don’t know that I know”
The final phase of learning is unconscious competence. Once the learning is ingrained, we no longer know that we know, because it becomes automatic. The body and memory have integrated the practice or knowledge, and it is at this point that we achieve expertise. This mastery may have taken more or less time depending on the energy and motivation invested, but the satisfaction of possessing a new skill is well worth the effort!
Don't get discouraged. Perseverance and patience are essential for success.

